Dear Younger Self,
Right now you probably think you know everything you need to know to navigate through life, and you probably think you’re invisible, but life will throw you some major curve balls and teach you some major lessons.
I understand you’re wishing time to hurry up, so you can be an adult and be on your own. But I’m going to tell you now that you’re going to need more help than you can imagine.
Life will look perfect and seem as though nothing can go wrong. You are going to marry a wonderful man who will make you smile everyday, you will become a mom to 2 beautiful kids who fills your heart everyday, and you will start off your career as a nurse. Remember feeling invisible? I don’t know what happened but life decided to test you for some reason and diagnose you with cancer. While you were trying to process the cancer news, 2 weeks later your daughter was diagnosed with Autism. You’re going to feel as though you lost control of everything.. your life.
I won’t tell you what happens, but I want to tell you 10 things to help you get through those tough times.
You will learn a lot about yourself and what’s truly important in life. Don’t give up when you feel like theres no other choice, you have the most important people believing in you. Even though life may have taken you on a different path, it’s the path that you’re meant to be on.. a path that makes you happy.
Your Future Self, Karen
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